Be honest and ask yourself: Why am I interested in Boudoir?
Read what others have said to me and see if anything vibes with you.
I need this Boudoir session because:
I’ll be pregnant soon and all this will change.
After giving birth, I just haven’t felt sexy.
I Love & Hate my “Soccer Mom” title. I NEED to tune in to this other side of me.
I don’t see what’s beautiful, attractive, or sensual about me.
I’m about to be 40, soooo……
I’ve been married for so long... We both need to see this side of me again.
I haven’t felt sexy or beautiful in a long time?
I’m so DONE with the OLD me. New Year New Me!
It’s time to celebrate me. I have come so far.
I’ve been told hurtful things. This will help me see my beauty.
I’ve secretly wanted to for so long.
I’ll be so proud of myself if i do this, especially since I just _______.
I love seeing beautiful pictures of myself. It makes me feel great!
My body is going to keep changing. I’m going to want to remember this.
No Frills or Fluff. No racks of shoes or closet of lingerie. (that others before you have used) No super cheesy, Girly Girly hype, or forced charm. Nope, none of that.
It’s just not necessary for my style of work. Communication is the key to trust and TRUST, is the key to COMFORT. Your outfit is an afterthought. Kind of like sprinkles on a cupcake. They’re great, but not the most important part. However… Your mindset, Your comfort, Your goal, Your reason WHY, and Your expectations… those are what I’m interested in. Beauty and Boudoir is ALL ABOUT YOU, not your outfit or how cool the studio looks. In fact, your session can even take place in your home.
The images I make are REAL and Believable. There is a rawness to them. The focus is on YOU and the many beautiful parts of you. NOT the outfit. My studio space, is simple and functional. It’s a small and separate area of my home where I create High End results. There is a private dressing area & bathroom too. Sooo… No abundant supply of pink panties and lace here. Just unique lighting, and a unique eye for beauty. Don’t worry, I’ll still help ya figure out outfits to bring, just don’t stress over it. Think Simple.
-Husband
-Father of 2
-Photographer
Your eyes do not deceive you…. I am indeed a MALE. The individuals I work with are OK with that. Some have even mentioned that the male perspective was important to them. Others mentioned that they were not interested in the “girly fluff” or interactions that are typical of a boudoir session.
I've learned to embrace emotions that most tend to ignore. Which might actually be why I’m so hung up on the importance of SELF LOVE, Self Development, and being Grateful for this moment, Right Here, and Right NOW.
Quick Quote —
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you ever have. Make the Now the primary focus of your life” — Eckhart Tolle.
I’m all for your empowerment and growth, I just dont think we need 20% of Victoria Secrets wardrobe line and a huge studio space to make that happen for you. Wardrobe is important and so is the setting, but NOT as important as lighting for mood, smart posing, conversation, and music to keep the vibes high. Those are the ingredients I use to bring out the side of you that you’re looking for or the part or you that you are finally ready to showcase. (Even if only for yourself)
I do not shoot alone. My wife or the makeup artist are usually here and I ALWAYS, recommend that you invite one person that makes you feel safe and comfortable to join you for the session. They usually help with moving hair, tags, and prepping your next outfit too. It’s like a mini hang out session that ends with some truly inexplicable positive vibes and pics.
What a doll to work with. So much perspective and such great character, that it saddens me to know about her struggle. However, she’s a real warrior and a hero. I can’t say much more without spilling too many details. She’s the kind of person people write blogs about.
Uploaded by Jaime Del Rio on 2019-01-21.
PLUS… Knowledge Bombs to get your mind ready.
I send out info on topics like “Things You need to know about Boudoir” or “SIMPLE Clothing, No One Thinks About”
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